Going under the proverbial Knife... this one's a doosey. - Page 5

Atheist · 08-16-2003, 11:04 PM

Well.. I only saw this right now but....

Good luck bro!

I've seen some of the procedures they do and you'll (hopefully) be happy with the end result!

It'll definitely be a long trial. But your conditions is not unheard of (how's that for horribly redundant grammatic syntax) and that there are many who have been happy after it is all said and done.

That said... Jessica... I can see that.

I guess I can't call you bro' anymore. How's Chica? Heheheh..

KitZune · 08-17-2003, 02:18 PM

hahahha Chica works for me ; ) Thanks for the kind words Athiest... Yeah I'm working out the beginning details right now, and it's hard... but hopefully I can pull through it because I really want this to happen.

Steele · 08-27-2003, 11:06 PM

I answer to Steele sometimes...so does one of my dogs

Kitz just reading all this now. Just wanted to add my 2cents for whatever it is worth...(I know it's worth 2 cents

) I remember when I was more active on these boards a couple of years ago we talked a few times in mIRC or something about you being Transgender...I remember sharing with you about my friend who is Transgender who used to be called Tom and is now Trish...after 40+ years of being male and 20 years of marriage he decided to be a female cuz he/she felt that he was/is a she...Tom has a wife and 2 sons...at that time they were about 17 and 15...this was very hard on the family and hard on their marriage...I believe they are still together and Tom is living as Trish...Tom's kids last I heard have not accepted his change...I believe He was going to Thailand to get the operation done. From what he described to me it does not sound to pleasant...

I will say this I do not agree with this. I know I appear to be in the Minority on these boards, but I also want you to know Kitz that I think no less of you for deciding your course of action and and Love you as my bother in Christ. It's a hard choice you made. I have never met you in RL and I hope that one day we do get to meet. You said in your original post "Laugh at me if you want...hate me if you want" I won't laugh at you and I won't hate you...I will Pray for you and I will Love you.

Your friend,

Tim

KitZune · 08-28-2003, 09:00 AM

It's nice to hear that thought ... and I know that so far it has been a falacy that so many people have "agreed" with me so far... I have so much support but most of the support doesn't realise what exactly it's going to mean... There will be a lot of change... To tell the truth I am having problems with it right now, but I want to get back on track... I can't live like this... I depress myself just looking in a mirror... but most of the time I feel like even in doing this I won't be happy... but THat's what therapy is for... and I need to seek someone out who can help me see if this really is the right option for me.

Ghryphen · 08-28-2003, 10:07 AM

Are you sure when you look in the mirror that you don't just want to lose some weight and excersise

I know I get depressed when I look in the mirror, but I think I just need to lose 50 pounds and eat a carrot

Stang · 08-28-2003, 11:24 AM

Hmm carrots

KitZune · 08-28-2003, 11:06 PM

hehehe.. well imagine how you feel wanting to lose weight... then imagine the desire to want to change genders ; ) It's a little different. Naah my feeling comes from somewhere different all together............ I can FEEL the body that I should have... I can literally FEEL it... and when I look in the mirror... and I see the monstrosity that really exists in it's place, it makes me sad... and then mad... I hate mirrors.

Mobius · 08-28-2003, 11:25 PM

I say screw the carrot. Mirror + Hammer = Glitter

THZDax · 09-01-2003, 01:24 PM

Well what to say,

i guess i should start with this. Its about time you make yourself happy. I met you years ago and i know (from what you told me) that you were unhappy so Congradulations

as for names i think one of your middle names should be Dax

08-16-2003, 11:04 PM	#61
Atheist Forum Regular Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Boston, Masshole Age: 45 Posts: 37	Well.. I only saw this right now but.... Good luck bro! I've seen some of the procedures they do and you'll (hopefully) be happy with the end result! It'll definitely be a long trial. But your conditions is not unheard of (how's that for horribly redundant grammatic syntax) and that there are many who have been happy after it is all said and done. That said... Jessica... I can see that. I guess I can't call you bro' anymore. How's Chica? Heheheh.. __________________ Shuck on it Trebek. Shuck it long. Shuck it hard.

08-17-2003, 02:18 PM	#62
KitZune Transgendered Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: Burlington Ontario (Near Toronto) Age: 42 Posts: 1,079	hahahha Chica works for me ; ) Thanks for the kind words Athiest... Yeah I'm working out the beginning details right now, and it's hard... but hopefully I can pull through it because I really want this to happen. __________________ She's named after Judas... Not a CARROT Click here to view my artwork

08-28-2003, 09:00 AM	#64
KitZune Transgendered Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: Burlington Ontario (Near Toronto) Age: 42 Posts: 1,079	It's nice to hear that thought ... and I know that so far it has been a falacy that so many people have "agreed" with me so far... I have so much support but most of the support doesn't realise what exactly it's going to mean... There will be a lot of change... To tell the truth I am having problems with it right now, but I want to get back on track... I can't live like this... I depress myself just looking in a mirror... but most of the time I feel like even in doing this I won't be happy... but THat's what therapy is for... and I need to seek someone out who can help me see if this really is the right option for me. __________________ She's named after Judas... Not a CARROT Click here to view my artwork

08-28-2003, 10:07 AM	#65
Ghryphen THZ Founder Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: WA, USA Age: 50 Posts: 3,927	Are you sure when you look in the mirror that you don't just want to lose some weight and excersise I know I get depressed when I look in the mirror, but I think I just need to lose 50 pounds and eat a carrot __________________ The Hounds of Zeus \| Allied Tribal Forces

08-28-2003, 11:24 AM	#66
Stang Team Captain Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: Everett, WA, USA Age: 50 Posts: 3,859 Xbox Leaderboard: 1^st	Hmm carrots __________________

08-28-2003, 11:06 PM	#67
KitZune Transgendered Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: Burlington Ontario (Near Toronto) Age: 42 Posts: 1,079	hehehe.. well imagine how you feel wanting to lose weight... then imagine the desire to want to change genders ; ) It's a little different. Naah my feeling comes from somewhere different all together............ I can FEEL the body that I should have... I can literally FEEL it... and when I look in the mirror... and I see the monstrosity that really exists in it's place, it makes me sad... and then mad... I hate mirrors. __________________ She's named after Judas... Not a CARROT Click here to view my artwork

08-28-2003, 11:25 PM	#68
Mobius Forum Regular Join Date: Mar 2001 Posts: 66	I say screw the carrot. Mirror + Hammer = Glitter

09-01-2003, 01:24 PM	#69
THZDax Forum Regular Join Date: Apr 2001 Posts: 348	Well what to say, i guess i should start with this. Its about time you make yourself happy. I met you years ago and i know (from what you told me) that you were unhappy so Congradulations as for names i think one of your middle names should be Dax