Dating Sucks - Page 3

Stang · 11-20-2003, 11:20 AM

Thats why we live on the other side of the mountain than you

.

Steele · 11-20-2003, 11:30 PM

You see I tell my wife how it is. If she don't like it...I'll just sleep on the couch...

Stang · 11-21-2003, 11:21 AM

Maz · 11-21-2003, 11:22 AM

that why I have a spare bedroom

XRogue · 11-21-2003, 12:39 PM

I have a very comfy sofa. So I'm the one who gets it.

Ghryphen · 11-21-2003, 01:53 PM

Stang · 11-21-2003, 07:04 PM

We would have a fight over the bed as we both love it

. But Im pretty sure I'd win

.

Jode · 11-23-2003, 10:38 PM

Yah theres no way I'd leave my bed either!!

DeLukas · 11-25-2003, 01:30 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Jode
Just make sure that person isn't already taken.

I lose. I didn't check and found out from one of her friends. However, she says, "...but I really like you. You're one of my best guy friends." My impluse is to run.

XRogue · 11-25-2003, 04:09 PM

Dude, follow that impulse, trust me.

Stang · 11-25-2003, 05:54 PM

Yes run fast and don't look back

.

Jode · 11-25-2003, 11:40 PM

Maz · 11-26-2003, 05:00 AM

RRUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUNN

Gambit · 11-26-2003, 08:15 PM

Well, I won't just say run, IF:

Can you keep it strictly friends-ish?

That's tough to do, I know. What does that mean? For starters, never being alone with this girl. You're either out in public or with friends or whatever, but nothing that could in any way, shape, or form be considered a date. You have to turn off the hormones, the flirting, the whole shebang.

If you aren't 100% sure you can keep this relationship on that level, then run. You can't even, in the back of your mind, think that someday she might not be with this other guy anymore, and so maybe you've got a shot at it. Most guys, especially young guys, can't do this.

So you probably should run. No reason you can't maintain a friendship, but a much more distant friendship than you were probably thinking of...

Maz · 11-29-2003, 07:38 AM

well said gambit

11-20-2003, 11:20 AM	#31
Stang Team Captain Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: Everett, WA, USA Age: 50 Posts: 3,859 Xbox Leaderboard: 1^st	Thats why we live on the other side of the mountain than you . __________________

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11-21-2003, 07:04 PM	#37
Stang Team Captain Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: Everett, WA, USA Age: 50 Posts: 3,859 Xbox Leaderboard: 1^st	We would have a fight over the bed as we both love it . But Im pretty sure I'd win . __________________

11-21-2003, 12:39 PM	#35
XRogue Forum wh0re Join Date: May 2001 Location: Texas Age: 53 Posts: 1,097	I have a very comfy sofa. So I'm the one who gets it.

11-23-2003, 10:38 PM	#38
Jode Whoopiteedoo! Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: WFZ Age: 48 Posts: 442	Yah theres no way I'd leave my bed either!! __________________

11-25-2003, 04:09 PM	#40
XRogue Forum wh0re Join Date: May 2001 Location: Texas Age: 53 Posts: 1,097	Dude, follow that impulse, trust me.

11-25-2003, 05:54 PM	#41
Stang Team Captain Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: Everett, WA, USA Age: 50 Posts: 3,859 Xbox Leaderboard: 1^st	Yes run fast and don't look back . __________________

11-25-2003, 11:40 PM	#42
Jode Whoopiteedoo! Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: WFZ Age: 48 Posts: 442	__________________

11-26-2003, 05:00 AM	#43
Maz Forum wh0re Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: Canada Age: 42 Posts: 1,429	RRUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUNN __________________

11-26-2003, 08:15 PM	#44
Gambit Forum wh0re Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: DFW area, TX Posts: 744	Well, I won't just say run, IF: Can you keep it strictly friends-ish? That's tough to do, I know. What does that mean? For starters, never being alone with this girl. You're either out in public or with friends or whatever, but nothing that could in any way, shape, or form be considered a date. You have to turn off the hormones, the flirting, the whole shebang. If you aren't 100% sure you can keep this relationship on that level, then run. You can't even, in the back of your mind, think that someday she might not be with this other guy anymore, and so maybe you've got a shot at it. Most guys, especially young guys, can't do this. So you probably should run. No reason you can't maintain a friendship, but a much more distant friendship than you were probably thinking of... __________________ XMEN member Card-carrying DTM OKL Fish-napper Though a program be but three lines long, someday it will have to be maintained. -The Tao of Programming

11-29-2003, 07:38 AM	#45
Maz Forum wh0re Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: Canada Age: 42 Posts: 1,429	well said gambit __________________

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