the best thing that has ever happened to me

yak · 06-07-2007, 08:16 PM

sarah (doomkitty) cheated on me and broke up with me again. i had fallen on some hard times and had been staying with her at her parents house. when she broke up with me and left me for my close friend, she kicked me out of the house. i got really mad and punched a tree, which caused me to break one of my knuckles. im now staying at a close friends house. i reset my broken knuckle myself. wow that hurt. i spent last night with monica, one of the really hot cocktail waitresses from where i work. needless to say i dont miss her. since i hit bottom, the only way to go is up. btw Harrah's Chester Casino and Racetrack is about to approve the union contract for the maintenance shop...yay!!!! big raise soon. it looks like this was the best thing to ever happen to me..

P.S. sorry for the mini novel i had a lot on my mind.

XRogue · 06-08-2007, 09:21 AM

Nothing wrong with writing a novel when you're mad. May as well get it all out, no?

yak · 06-08-2007, 09:32 AM

i wasn't as mad when i wrote that as you might think, i actually feel sorry for her. Ive never been happier, except that ive sort of forgotten what it is like to be single again. lol

Stang · 06-08-2007, 03:52 PM

Thats what the bitch pit is for to tell novels and get things off your chest.

I'm glad you found that you are happier and can move on. Especially when someone does something like that to you. Keep your head up yak your going to better. Everyone has hard times in their lives and eventually make it out.

Now go have fun being single!

Aluscia · 06-08-2007, 08:00 PM

Welcome back to the bachelor-fold.

yak · 06-08-2007, 08:12 PM

Thank you all, but it will still take me a little bit of time to be ready emotionaly for a relationship. Everyday Im geting better though. BTW working at a casino and being young and single brings everyone around. I went around for the first 3 1/2 month telling everyone that im engaged. I averaged 2 people hitting on me a night . Now that im single im averaging about 15+ a night.

Not to sound like a pig, but most of the cocktail waitresses are really hot...so at least i wont be lonely while i gather the peices of my heart.

XRogue · 06-09-2007, 06:20 PM

Good that you're looking up.

Aluscia · 06-09-2007, 06:43 PM

As long as you're honest about not being ready for something serious, have all the fun you can

If someone is genuinely looking for a relationship, they will avoid you.

yak · 06-09-2007, 10:29 PM

I dont even really feel like going out and having fun. Ive almost reverted back to what I was before I met her. Before i met her I stayed inside all the time except to go to work and school. I went a year and a half from the previous relationship to the one with sarah. I didnt mind being alone. I had some more fun with the same cocktail waitress from the other night, It didnt affect me. I was a loner before I met her i think i should be a loner again. ( me thinking positive...lol)

yak · 06-10-2007, 11:57 PM

i just had a talk with sarah online. it didnt go so well. i started crying in the middle of it and havent stopped yet. i hate to say it but, i still love her. im not as over her as i thought. im thinking this is going to be harder than i first thought. ive cried more in the last week and a half than in the rest of my life. The only ones i have to comfort me is you guys, but it doesnt help much. i need a shoulder to cry on, there is no one here for that. i never knew how much i loved her until it was over. shes not even sorry for doing it.it getting harder to see the keyboard, so i think i should go to sleep. i never knew i could hurt this bad. sorry for this post i just need to get it off my chest. after the 2nd day i was fine until now

i guess this wasnt the best thing to happen to me

XRogue · 06-11-2007, 06:14 AM

Yes, it is the best thing. Because now you know what she's all about and she's gone. I've been in your position and I know. (Long story, but take it from me, don't take her back. It won't be worth it.)

yak · 06-11-2007, 06:47 AM

i still have feelings for her, but said earlier that i wouldnt take her back. im staying single for a while. i dont know how long yet.

Aluscia · 06-11-2007, 08:43 AM

Wait, is she even interested in getting back with you? Put that bitch down (literally). Move on, get a new perspective. Figure out whether you're sitll interested after the whole thing has cooled down, but don't even think about it now... it's not worth it.

Stang · 06-11-2007, 04:15 PM

It will be hard for awhile but stay strong you don't need someone that doesnt even feel bad for doing something to a loved one like that. Of course you are still going to feel in love with her but it will go away. Just don't take her back! Or we will have to hurt you

. Until you find that shoulder to cry on keep coming here and letting it out. Its not good to keep it in.

Hang in there Yak

XRogue · 06-11-2007, 07:18 PM

We mean that, man. Use us for help and get help in RL too. Do NOT take her back. I tried that once, and it so does not work. (Long time ago, obviously, not a current situation.

)

Aluscia and Stang are right. Hang in there and don't even be around her. She's not even sorry.

06-07-2007, 08:16 PM	#1
yak Threadkiller Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: marysville, washington Age: 39 Posts: 537	the best thing that has ever happened to me sarah (doomkitty) cheated on me and broke up with me again. i had fallen on some hard times and had been staying with her at her parents house. when she broke up with me and left me for my close friend, she kicked me out of the house. i got really mad and punched a tree, which caused me to break one of my knuckles. im now staying at a close friends house. i reset my broken knuckle myself. wow that hurt. i spent last night with monica, one of the really hot cocktail waitresses from where i work. needless to say i dont miss her. since i hit bottom, the only way to go is up. btw Harrah's Chester Casino and Racetrack is about to approve the union contract for the maintenance shop...yay!!!! big raise soon. it looks like this was the best thing to ever happen to me.. P.S. sorry for the mini novel i had a lot on my mind. __________________ One can smile, and smile, and still be a villian.-William Shakespeare Are you trying to tell me that the man who tried to put a rubber fist in my anus was a uhh.. homosexual?-Borat

06-08-2007, 09:32 AM	#3
yak Threadkiller Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: marysville, washington Age: 39 Posts: 537	i wasn't as mad when i wrote that as you might think, i actually feel sorry for her. Ive never been happier, except that ive sort of forgotten what it is like to be single again. lol __________________ One can smile, and smile, and still be a villian.-William Shakespeare Are you trying to tell me that the man who tried to put a rubber fist in my anus was a uhh.. homosexual?-Borat

06-08-2007, 03:52 PM	#4
Stang Team Captain Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: Everett, WA, USA Age: 50 Posts: 3,859 Xbox Leaderboard: 1^st	Thats what the bitch pit is for to tell novels and get things off your chest. I'm glad you found that you are happier and can move on. Especially when someone does something like that to you. Keep your head up yak your going to better. Everyone has hard times in their lives and eventually make it out. Now go have fun being single! __________________

06-08-2007, 08:00 PM	#5
Aluscia Emo Queen 1000th Thread Main Forum Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: In a subterranean complex. Age: 41 Posts: 2,346	Welcome back to the bachelor-fold. __________________ Favourite Song of the moment - Pyramid Song - Radiohead

06-08-2007, 08:12 PM	#6
yak Threadkiller Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: marysville, washington Age: 39 Posts: 537	Thank you all, but it will still take me a little bit of time to be ready emotionaly for a relationship. Everyday Im geting better though. BTW working at a casino and being young and single brings everyone around. I went around for the first 3 1/2 month telling everyone that im engaged. I averaged 2 people hitting on me a night . Now that im single im averaging about 15+ a night. Not to sound like a pig, but most of the cocktail waitresses are really hot...so at least i wont be lonely while i gather the peices of my heart. __________________ One can smile, and smile, and still be a villian.-William Shakespeare Are you trying to tell me that the man who tried to put a rubber fist in my anus was a uhh.. homosexual?-Borat

06-08-2007, 09:21 AM	#2
XRogue Forum wh0re Join Date: May 2001 Location: Texas Age: 53 Posts: 1,097	Nothing wrong with writing a novel when you're mad. May as well get it all out, no?

06-09-2007, 06:20 PM	#7
XRogue Forum wh0re Join Date: May 2001 Location: Texas Age: 53 Posts: 1,097	Good that you're looking up.

06-09-2007, 06:43 PM	#8
Aluscia Emo Queen 1000th Thread Main Forum Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: In a subterranean complex. Age: 41 Posts: 2,346	As long as you're honest about not being ready for something serious, have all the fun you can If someone is genuinely looking for a relationship, they will avoid you. __________________ Favourite Song of the moment - Pyramid Song - Radiohead

06-09-2007, 10:29 PM	#9
yak Threadkiller Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: marysville, washington Age: 39 Posts: 537	I dont even really feel like going out and having fun. Ive almost reverted back to what I was before I met her. Before i met her I stayed inside all the time except to go to work and school. I went a year and a half from the previous relationship to the one with sarah. I didnt mind being alone. I had some more fun with the same cocktail waitress from the other night, It didnt affect me. I was a loner before I met her i think i should be a loner again. ( me thinking positive...lol) __________________ One can smile, and smile, and still be a villian.-William Shakespeare Are you trying to tell me that the man who tried to put a rubber fist in my anus was a uhh.. homosexual?-Borat

06-10-2007, 11:57 PM	#10
yak Threadkiller Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: marysville, washington Age: 39 Posts: 537	i just had a talk with sarah online. it didnt go so well. i started crying in the middle of it and havent stopped yet. i hate to say it but, i still love her. im not as over her as i thought. im thinking this is going to be harder than i first thought. ive cried more in the last week and a half than in the rest of my life. The only ones i have to comfort me is you guys, but it doesnt help much. i need a shoulder to cry on, there is no one here for that. i never knew how much i loved her until it was over. shes not even sorry for doing it.it getting harder to see the keyboard, so i think i should go to sleep. i never knew i could hurt this bad. sorry for this post i just need to get it off my chest. after the 2nd day i was fine until now i guess this wasnt the best thing to happen to me __________________ One can smile, and smile, and still be a villian.-William Shakespeare Are you trying to tell me that the man who tried to put a rubber fist in my anus was a uhh.. homosexual?-Borat

06-11-2007, 06:14 AM	#11
XRogue Forum wh0re Join Date: May 2001 Location: Texas Age: 53 Posts: 1,097	Yes, it is the best thing. Because now you know what she's all about and she's gone. I've been in your position and I know. (Long story, but take it from me, don't take her back. It won't be worth it.)

06-11-2007, 06:47 AM	#12
yak Threadkiller Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: marysville, washington Age: 39 Posts: 537	i still have feelings for her, but said earlier that i wouldnt take her back. im staying single for a while. i dont know how long yet. __________________ One can smile, and smile, and still be a villian.-William Shakespeare Are you trying to tell me that the man who tried to put a rubber fist in my anus was a uhh.. homosexual?-Borat

06-11-2007, 08:43 AM	#13
Aluscia Emo Queen 1000th Thread Main Forum Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: In a subterranean complex. Age: 41 Posts: 2,346	Wait, is she even interested in getting back with you? Put that bitch down (literally). Move on, get a new perspective. Figure out whether you're sitll interested after the whole thing has cooled down, but don't even think about it now... it's not worth it. __________________ Favourite Song of the moment - Pyramid Song - Radiohead

06-11-2007, 04:15 PM	#14
Stang Team Captain Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: Everett, WA, USA Age: 50 Posts: 3,859 Xbox Leaderboard: 1^st	It will be hard for awhile but stay strong you don't need someone that doesnt even feel bad for doing something to a loved one like that. Of course you are still going to feel in love with her but it will go away. Just don't take her back! Or we will have to hurt you . Until you find that shoulder to cry on keep coming here and letting it out. Its not good to keep it in. Hang in there Yak __________________

06-11-2007, 07:18 PM	#15
XRogue Forum wh0re Join Date: May 2001 Location: Texas Age: 53 Posts: 1,097	We mean that, man. Use us for help and get help in RL too. Do NOT take her back. I tried that once, and it so does not work. (Long time ago, obviously, not a current situation. ) Aluscia and Stang are right. Hang in there and don't even be around her. She's not even sorry.

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