Man I think we need to take a trip up there to Iceland and talk your wife

. I can see how some women have troubles with sex and some just dont have that drive like others but its a relationship and there is someone else there that needs the love too

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It is an issue and you just need to keep bringing it up and try to get her some help or like Delukas said have a huge fight about it and see what comes of it. A good fight is healthy everyonce in a while, brings things out that need to be discussed. Laurelin said it like I would have. Dont shy away from the subject keep it going cuz its not fair for either of you. Let her know what its doing to you, if she cares she should understand and compromise or something. I just dont think she wants to face this issue for some reason or a deeper issue.
Cuddling and foreplay ALWAYS works for me :yup, or a good massage

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I hope she comes around sometime. And thank god for masturbation huh

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I hope she comes around sometime.