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The bigest thing is that she won't even talk about it, so the "talk it out" angle dosn't work either.
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You just stated what was a massive problem in the relationship my fiancé. She ranged from shy to down right preachy prudish. What changed? I have no idea. We had a big fight about it. After more then two hours, I yelled something, and to this day I wish I could remember the exact wording. However, the fight stopped. I went home. However, the next day everything changed. I guess what I am trying to say is that in my own relationship it took a very heated and difficult moment to express to her how much this was hurting me (it made me feel rejected and that I was failing to meet her needs. Even if that was not the case, that is how it made me feel) and because she loved me she worked to change. Confrontation is not always to be avoided.