people that dont have "kinky" sex
 

i can't stand people that don't have what is considered to be "kinky" sex. whether they are scared to try new things, i dont really care. they just really piss me off. what's wrong with some chains or whips or executioner's masks. then why do they complain if they dont understand it. :mad: :devil: :mad:

My sentiments exactly... I find it quite disparaging that people get mad at their partners for suggesting things like that.

yes thats my point,
some people just cant accept the fact that it takes different thngs to satisfy different people


:hammy:

People get mad?

WTF?

I'm not saying that I'm into rough sex... but come on! I can see someone not wanting to do it... but getting mad? Then again, if the person that wants it is pressuring the other, that's not right.

I like being tied to my bed. Whips, on theother hand, are not for me, but hey- I'll try most anything once.

Having some trouble with the partner? :D

Dont pressure them cuz it wont get ya anywhere and like Asha said its not right :nono. Then it starts boarding on other issues.

Ill try anything once but Ill also stop it in the middle of it if I dont like it.

When I first read this I was like "why is he worried about how others have sex?" "Its none of your business what others do", "Worry about your own sex". So it must be a personal issue :). But hey this is what the Pit is for :D.

At this point I will take sex any way that I can get it. I am married and its been over 3 months now. I can't see how any one can complain about how it happens. They can be married to my wife (she puts the "F" in fridged) and not get any. Its not the "how" it happens its the "how often"

Eh, I can sympathize, Xeno, tho not fulluy understanding your pain. Personally, sex is one of the greatest things ever invented, IMHO. Is there anything which might help your situation?

Let me correct Rogue:

Is there anything which might help your situation besides a hooker or mistress?

:p :D

I don't have any idea what might help. We have only had sex 6 times this year and I have tried everything that I can think of we even got a book called "For Women Only" and here reading that may have shed some light on her problems but it didn't fix any thing.

Well, do you have an idea if it's a medical condition (sometimes that happens... like with depression), or if it's just that she doesn't see you that way anymore, or she's going across town for some action-satisfaction, or is it a "talk-it-out" kind of problem?

The only one that you probably can't fix is if she is going across town. To me, I couldn't take that.

Maybe I'm prying too much into your personal life here. I apologize if I am. :D

Oh no your not prying to much if you don't mind hearing answers that might be "to much information". My wife dosn't like to read that much and the little that we did read the for mentioned book said that her problem was medical. Female sexual disfunction isn't really a widly discussed field and there is a limited amount of information out there.

As for going across town its not that thank god. Belive me I have looked into it questioning friends and co-workers alike to make sure. The bigest thing is that she won't even talk about it, so the "talk it out" angle dosn't work either.

Makes things very frustrating.

You just stated what was a massive problem in the relationship my fiancé. She ranged from shy to down right preachy prudish. What changed? I have no idea. We had a big fight about it. After more then two hours, I yelled something, and to this day I wish I could remember the exact wording. However, the fight stopped. I went home. However, the next day everything changed. I guess what I am trying to say is that in my own relationship it took a very heated and difficult moment to express to her how much this was hurting me (it made me feel rejected and that I was failing to meet her needs. Even if that was not the case, that is how it made me feel) and because she loved me she worked to change. Confrontation is not always to be avoided.

Question just occurred to me Xeno-has it always been this way with her, or did it start suddenly?