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yak 06-07-2007 07:16 PM

the best thing that has ever happened to me
sarah (doomkitty) cheated on me and broke up with me again. i had fallen on some hard times and had been staying with her at her parents house. when she broke up with me and left me for my close friend, she kicked me out of the house. i got really mad and punched a tree, which caused me to break one of my knuckles. im now staying at a close friends house. i reset my broken knuckle myself. wow that hurt. i spent last night with monica, one of the really hot cocktail waitresses from where i work. needless to say i dont miss her. since i hit bottom, the only way to go is up. btw Harrah's Chester Casino and Racetrack is about to approve the union contract for the maintenance shop...yay!!!! big raise soon. it looks like this was the best thing to ever happen to me..

P.S. sorry for the mini novel i had a lot on my mind.

:hammy: :rofl: :2lol: :rofl: :hammy:

XRogue 06-08-2007 08:21 AM

Nothing wrong with writing a novel when you're mad. May as well get it all out, no?

yak 06-08-2007 08:32 AM

i wasn't as mad when i wrote that as you might think, i actually feel sorry for her. Ive never been happier, except that ive sort of forgotten what it is like to be single again. lol

Stang 06-08-2007 02:52 PM

Thats what the bitch pit is for to tell novels and get things off your chest.

I'm glad you found that you are happier and can move on. Especially when someone does something like that to you. Keep your head up yak your going to better. Everyone has hard times in their lives and eventually make it out.

Now go have fun being single! :D

Aluscia 06-08-2007 07:00 PM

Welcome back to the bachelor-fold.

yak 06-08-2007 07:12 PM

Thank you all, but it will still take me a little bit of time to be ready emotionaly for a relationship. Everyday Im geting better though. BTW working at a casino and being young and single brings everyone around. I went around for the first 3 1/2 month telling everyone that im engaged. I averaged 2 people hitting on me a night . Now that im single im averaging about 15+ a night.:yup: Not to sound like a pig, but most of the cocktail waitresses are really at least i wont be lonely while i gather the peices of my heart.

XRogue 06-09-2007 05:20 PM

Good that you're looking up. :)

Aluscia 06-09-2007 05:43 PM

As long as you're honest about not being ready for something serious, have all the fun you can :) If someone is genuinely looking for a relationship, they will avoid you.

yak 06-09-2007 09:29 PM

I dont even really feel like going out and having fun. Ive almost reverted back to what I was before I met her. Before i met her I stayed inside all the time except to go to work and school. I went a year and a half from the previous relationship to the one with sarah. I didnt mind being alone. I had some more fun with the same cocktail waitress from the other night, It didnt affect me. I was a loner before I met her i think i should be a loner again. ( me thinking

yak 06-10-2007 10:57 PM

i just had a talk with sarah online. it didnt go so well. i started crying in the middle of it and havent stopped yet. i hate to say it but, i still love her. im not as over her as i thought. im thinking this is going to be harder than i first thought. ive cried more in the last week and a half than in the rest of my life. The only ones i have to comfort me is you guys, but it doesnt help much. i need a shoulder to cry on, there is no one here for that. i never knew how much i loved her until it was over. shes not even sorry for doing getting harder to see the keyboard, so i think i should go to sleep. i never knew i could hurt this bad. sorry for this post i just need to get it off my chest. after the 2nd day i was fine until now

i guess this wasnt the best thing to happen to me

XRogue 06-11-2007 05:14 AM

Yes, it is the best thing. Because now you know what she's all about and she's gone. I've been in your position and I know. (Long story, but take it from me, don't take her back. It won't be worth it.)

yak 06-11-2007 05:47 AM

i still have feelings for her, but said earlier that i wouldnt take her back. im staying single for a while. i dont know how long yet.

Aluscia 06-11-2007 07:43 AM

Wait, is she even interested in getting back with you? Put that bitch down (literally). Move on, get a new perspective. Figure out whether you're sitll interested after the whole thing has cooled down, but don't even think about it now... it's not worth it.

Stang 06-11-2007 03:15 PM

It will be hard for awhile but stay strong you don't need someone that doesnt even feel bad for doing something to a loved one like that. Of course you are still going to feel in love with her but it will go away. Just don't take her back! Or we will have to hurt you :p. Until you find that shoulder to cry on keep coming here and letting it out. Its not good to keep it in.

Hang in there Yak

XRogue 06-11-2007 06:18 PM

We mean that, man. Use us for help and get help in RL too. Do NOT take her back. I tried that once, and it so does not work. (Long time ago, obviously, not a current situation. :p)

Aluscia and Stang are right. Hang in there and don't even be around her. She's not even sorry.

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